adayinrussell asked: Hey, I'm sorry, you must get loads of similar questions to this. I was just wondering if you'd tell me what the process of stretching a labret is like? I have experience in stretching various different piercings but I'm more looking for the emotional side of the stretching process. Like, how you felt after each stage, the stigma that comes with large gauge facial piercings etc? Sorry if this is too personal! x

Thank you for this. I usually only get questions regarding the physical aspect of stretching piercings, so I am happy to try and answer this one. I hope it’s what you were looking for.

I would have to say the most intense emotion I feel after stretching a piercing (or getting pierced or tattooed at all) is pride; I feel proud of myself and my body. It takes a long time to stretch piercings in a healthy manner, a whole lot of patience. It seems many outsiders think that we, as people with large holes in our bodies or whatever, are just sadistic freaks. I can’t speak for others, but for me, it has nothing to do with enjoying pain or discomfort. If I’m going to do something painful, it can be cathartic, but that’s not generally why I get pierced, tattooed, bla bla bla. Sure, that can be part of the experience, but that also just makes me proud. I’m strong. I was given this awesome physical body and I enjoy pushing its limits.

Another thing: before, I’ve mentioned my distaste for the natural shape of my nose and lips. When I take out my facial jewelry, I feel really sad. I don’t enjoy the way I used to look. I’ve worked so hard to come this far and when I look in the mirror, I love what I see, so I guess that’s the other emotion: happiness.